Hazrat Wala (Muhi-us-Sunnah Shah Abrar-ul-Haq Sahab (RA)) used to say that wife is not a servant or a slave. She is the beloved. And to give an example he used to ask whether Layla was subservient or Majnoon.
(Tea Time on Saturday September 10, 2011)
(Tea Time on Saturday September 10, 2011)