Today by smallest  provocation  we end up taking such actions that effect whole life. An associate became fiery and angry in a monastery  (khanqah) because of some mistake by some one else. The Shaikh  admonished him by saying that if I do not have a patience then I shall  leave this monastery. Today on the slightest mistake we start calling  our wives names. For People of Allah the anger is for things related to  Allah only and it is not that on a small mistake you start calling your  wife mean and all that.
(Sitting (majlis) on Sunday, January 16, 2011)